When was the last time you noticed your spouse in a fresh way of appreciation?

What can you do to refresh your affection for your spouse?

Who do you aspire to be in your marriage?

How are decisions made in your house?

How affectionate are you?

What do you do when you are irritated by something little, but constant?

What are you planning that will make this summer special?

Are you in play?

Do you know the difference between a complaint and a criticism?

Have you ever thought you knew exactly what your spouse wanted but discovered that you did not?

What’s Growing?

What have the two of you done together recently that was fun?

What is something fun you could do in the next thirty days?

Do you have a porch or outdoor swing?

How open are you to discover and work on some of your ‘blind spots’ in personality and behavior?

How open are you to discover and work on some of your ‘blind spots’ in personality and behavior?

Do you personally or as a family do anything to observe Good Friday?

If so, what do you do and what does it mean to you.

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Answer at least one of these questions, if not all to check in with yourself.

What are you angry about?
What are you sad about?
What are you anxious about?
What are you excited about?
What are you hopeful about?

Share with your spouse what you noticed about your current experience. Keep it safe.

How well do you maintain your equanimity generally?

What things easily upset you?

Describe a special moment you have experienced in the last week or two? Was it with someone? Was it an accomplishment or achievement?

Was it something you saw or observed? Was it an activity?